It’s more my time, the annoyance, and the fact that every post I make in the marketplace now has to be self moderated because the user constantly posts that I’m a scammer when I have done no such thing.
Bullshit. Your escrow buddy OG has been doing that for years, and you condone it.
Stop being a hypocrite. If you want to stop being accused of shady things, use a better escrow. One that would return your escrow fees.