I didn't interpret your words as being harsh tbh - I don't tend to take things personal very rapidly, especially since most of us do not know each other (nor each other's situation) personally. If it's not a lesson to me personally, it might be a lesson to someone else reading these posts.

Now, I'd friendly suggest to remove this perfume of "Serious Discussion" out of the WO again. I'm having some Belgian beers atm, here's to your health, JJG and all WO peepz.