In the process of trying to be a future whales you could lost everything,trust me this got me no where and I realized that I've lost tons of money because I was never contented, be smart and always take advantage of any project that brings you profit, do not stare at your wallet and say 'im gonna be rich in 3 years later' this is 1% out of 100% chance that it's ever going to happen, remember, been rich isn't the most important part of our lives but living a good life is.
You say everything right! I understood just like you when I lost my money. Now I have changed my approach and lowered my desires, taking on the responsibility of not losing my money.
Since my desire to be rich hasn't gone anywhere I realized that this desire only hurts me. Now I have limited myself in the number of trade deals аnd it gives me the opportunity to analyze and think more before making deals.