I think it depends on a certain person. There are women who have sex one time a month and it is enough for her. And there are those who are ready for sex every day and every minute.  Of course, it depends on many factors. Also, their health plays a great role. My wife took pills and started experiencing lower sex drive. Fortunately, her doctor found out the reason and suggested using Implant Birth Control instead. Speaking about men, in most cases, we have a great desire, especially when we are 20. When we get older, sometimes we prefer spending time sitting in a recliner and drinking beer