or really low fees? i used coinbase but im not buying enough coins to really make it worth he cost of the transaction fee. there use to be crytopia not sure what happened to it but anyways is therre a place i can trade cryptos for free like they do with stocks and such
Cryptopia is gone now. How? Search for it and know more if you wish to.
Back to your question, you cannot trade without fees. The exchange will make some profit off the customers and thats why they are running the business. They would not be running it if they were doing things for free - use your common sense here.
So a legitimate exchange will ask for fees. Now you might want to check out every other exchange that allows people from your country to see which one has lowest fees and which one is working best for you, not all of them will.
For low volume transaction users, fees will always be a problem though. You have to accept it and continue.