cant seem to connect
Just want to make sure you are using version 0.3.0 of the Coyote miner or compiled from source. There are other versions floating around and they will not connect. It connects to port 4444 on the pool server so make sure that is not blocked as well.
The syntax for connecting is pool_miner.exe nrs.blockquarry.com worker.1 no http or https or anything on that. I imagine you have all that fine just wanted to double check as I see other connections incoming and just verified from a different linux box to make sure it could establish a connection.
Is there a "-t 3"(i have 4 cores..) or equal command for the coyoteminer?
The coyote miner does not have a flag for that. In Windows within the task manager you could set the pool_miner.exe to a lower priority or nice the process in Linux.
Password?thread?
Password does not matter for the worker