In the second transaction, i pay 0.00011580 BTC fee (661 bytes)
Yes mate, i think i cant do nothing more than wait...
That means in you paid about 17.5 satoshis/byte. It's not much better in terms of priority but given that is still hasn't appeared on block explorers, I'd agree that the second transaction has been rejected.
-zapwallettxes will only remove the transaction from your node and it can't remove them from other nodes which have downloaded this transaction from you.
Why don't you use RBF to bump the fee on the other transaction and send it to the other address?
I dont use RBF because i send all the coins of the node, thats why i use zapwallettxes