Do you have the transaction ID for the first transaciton? do you mind sharing? if we can see it in the mempool, it will be confirmed .
He actually posted it in the post above yours, it is
https://blockchair.com/bitcoin/transaction/fae6255a76c1289b00853a90025a0f89495fd0c4ebadf4a0b2a2c1201514ddb4 .
And as I guessed, the priority is low, Blockchair reports it as 53623th of 54483 transactions in the mempool (
at this moment, because the exact numbers are very volatile and are changing every minute or so). It is one of the lowest priority transactions in the mempool.
I heard that the mempool gets flushed around Saturday or Sunday so your transaction will most likely confirm then. If not then there are some transaction accelerator services on this forum you can use to get it confirmed, including
one from Poolin that recently pushed someone's transaction containing funds that have been locked for almost a year. I recommend that if you are desperate, but there's also a free accelerator at
FREE/PAY BITCOIN TRANSACTION ACCELERATOR.