I just restored the node, and now i see the fist transaction (fae6255a76c1289b00853a90025a0f89495fd0c4ebadf4a0b2a2c1201514ddb4).
Why did you "restore" the node? 
All you had to do was do a rescanblockchain command on the console... or start with -rescan commandline argument... it would have found the "original" transaction and you'd still be fully synced. You wouldn't need to wait for anything (except the rescan command to complete) unless you are using a "pruned" node.
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Can i do something to speed up node synchronization? I dont want to wait 1-2 weeks to full sync for send btc for RBF this transaction... I want to spend my moneeeeyyyyyy 
Sync speed is a function of: - Storage type (SDD > HDD)
- CPU speed
- RAM (more == better, if you increase dbcache value)
- Internet Bandwidth
If any of these is "sub-optimal"... it'll slow things down