First of all - try to touch backplate. 3090 may throttle due to high memory temperature. If its ok - try to add core clock several times per 100MH one time.
I have checked HWInfo and no thermal throttling, only power throttle!
In MSI Afterburner its not even displaying the mV, why would that be do you think?
Also the fan for the backplate that comes with the unit doesnt fit into my case because of another cable

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You will not see memory throttle, that`s why try to touch. I can`t say anything about MSI Afterburner - i just don`t remember it. Try HiveOS or RaveOS. It`s simple and helps to configure your GPUs easily.
New version of HWinfo shows memory temps for my 3090s. If its lower then 110 there is no throttling.
By the way backplate of Palit (96C mem) is hotter than Gigabyate Eagle (108C mem), when i touch it.
my settings - 0.725V 1100 Mhz Core/ 10500 Mhz memory
its on eth 120Mh/300W power consumption
Yeah, my Palits respond very well to fans/sinks on the backplate. mine @94C mem similar other numbers to above.