1. Who you are, you will attract whom.
2. Do a good job in self-improvement, you can re-establish your sense of worth through reading, yoga, and writing. Participate in book clubs, such as Fan Deng Book Club.
3. Distinguish the difference between the circle of concern and the circle of influence. A circle of interest means you can only comment. Things you can't change that can only be sulking but useless. Circles of influence are things that you can change within your power.