no one is perfect, you know. I'm not 30 yet but I've watched Desperate housewives and why women kill, they taught me lot. I think so long as what they do is not so insane, it's okay. you may don't like them manytimes but since you can meet these people, you don't know when the time comes and you need their help or you feel the good part of them! play poker in free time or go shopping together might be a good choice~