both.  but it's a while out.  the bitcoin community is like a bunch of hardware guys that don't even know their h/w is meant to run software. i mean for xrist sake porn.com only started using bitcoin a couple months ago.  think about why that is?  this community utterly sucks at evangelizing to anyone that does not want to buy an ASIC miner and print funny internet money.

why are people so against paying fees?  keep in mind that designing these sites, writing the code, doing user focus groups, gathering data, community engagement all take time and cost money.  

try not to focus on the negatives, more about the positives and empowering people.  

low fees are useless if you get shit for service, now of course everyone hates high fees and shit for service... but in fact many people are willing to pay even more for great service.