Can anyone please explain this to me?   

I have some LEND stuck on an IEDOO wallet.   The only thing I have been able to figure out after countless hours on how to get it off of there, is that I can swap it for ETH within the wallet, but to do this is going to cost like 70% of the amount of the LEND I have.  And it's still a crapshoot with the amount of the fee, as I keep previewing the transaction and backing out, and trying again, to see how it varies, and have watched the fee % change by as much as 50% within minutes. 

Is there not a way to still swap the LEND for AAVE at a 1:1 ratio?   I tried going to the AAVE telegram channel, there is no one from AAVE in there, just a bot, and countless scammers trying to trick me into disclosing my seed phrase. Some really sophisticated bastards too.   I also emailed their support, and after 2-3 days they have not even responded.  Very frustrating.