Very quickly you get emotional we are not hypocritical, from your conversation we can judge, to be honest, you are hesitant to tell the truth.

You may respect someone, it's your human right, there's nothing to stop you, however, you know this is a forum, not a private space, If you claim something about someone else you need evidence to convince the community here, that's all the community asks for, nothing more, instead you speak indeterminate, how do you claim someone has died, without showing anything to convince other people.

Talking anyone can, evidence for the talk is what is needed.
What is the difficulty of showing evidence here that someone is gone, while you spend a lot of time looking for it.