Nobody cares what noobs think. Especially when they are undeniably spouting crap.
You probably wouldn't view your parents as abusers. Clearly merging their DNA is gene pool abuse and abusive to humankind and the planet. This again is a strong point I doubt that  unassisted you could strongly refute.

Try reading vods bullshit basis for his red tags. They range from lies to clear derangement and memory loss.
Vod is a hazard to this forums trust system.

Then have another try. There is nothing wrong with being rude depending on the situation but being a liar or deliberately misleading people is wrong.