Unfortunately, these days, not so many are ready to fish for themselves or take the time to learn how to fish.
Then never give them fish that is simple solution , because letting them become more Lazy by helping is also not a good idea.
It becomes a problem because, they view you as trying to escape stress or putting them to stress. Like they've been a burden for which you've been enduring and just wants to throw at any given opportunity.
But they must learn and earn , that is the cycle of life.
So, how to fish is reserved for those willing to learn and as such, they have to present themselves. Then they would appreciate it the more.
Lol That is a obligation of every human , and if you don't wanna fish then better DIE now.