Some get it just after a trial, others many trials. Always remember that your case or situation might be different and you might fall into the harder category of individuals.
That is life , we cannot change anything that comes on our way but we can make change the future.
face it with Guts and Glory , and never surrender unless the one you are fighting is the one who surrender first.
Don't even think of stopping if it didn't work out the first time, just like some did, it is okay to ask questions, ask for help. It is okay to get mad and angry sometimes too as to why things seem harder for you to achieve. But in whatever you do, don't quit or stop working.
Trial is part of life and that is not the basis of surrendering but the longevity and no good implication that there is still a progress.