Ok something is moving now! I made another transaction (with fee) to the same recipient and finally i got my first confirmation from the blockchain. Let's see when will be the second confirmation. Most transactions need 3 confirmations to be valid. I have to wait now.
Looks like its all confirmed now!
How much did you send on your other transaction?
Yes all good and all confirmed now! Just send again 0.0035 plus 0.0001 fee. Cool! I don't have to delete anything!
But anyway, there should be a easy way to delete unconfirmed transactions on mac osx.... Will see...Maybe in the future some app will do that work...