Habitual complaints, many people encounter difficulties, always complaining in consciousness. As long as a problem occurs, it is all the environment's fault, and it is still a strange era. Freud has an effect called [degradation] effect, refers to the face of the problem, due to the unknown, the unknown process, we will generate fear, and then retreat to your comfort zone. This effect is used here, it is very good explanation why everyone will complain, because if you don't push your responsibility to others, you mean that you need to make changes, and change is unknown, or shrinking in your own comfortable area. some.