Since the day I lost my father (4th march), I have been researching about death, I have come across so many theories but none has given me the kind of answers I need. though I am a Christian who believes in God and Jesus his son, I still find it hard to believe in hell because I can not imagine people going through eternal pains for the evil they have done on earth, it's hard to understand how a common food criminal will be in hell with a murderer. I found a video on youtube that gave me some sort of understanding, Alen Watt's video... I need you guys to check it out and let me know what you really think about this topic
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0CRj0j-iOpU&t=52sI am sorry to hear that. May your dad rest in peace. Unfortunately no one can answer you that question with a 100% certainty. This is a very personal idea of life after death. For many of us this question is answered by religion, but we still need to decide if we believe or not. Personally, I believe there is something after death and that we will get the chance to meet our lost ones again.