Totally agree，fate just a excuse for us to console ourselves，the reason is lack of control，if you keep gambling without control，might be you could win one or twice，but you would lose finally. This is a normal phenomenon for a gambler. ~
Fate is the thing which helps us to get the wins but having control is important as well. People also makes profit by betting crazily or with rage bets, fate is the main key on those times. Though in the end gambler loss all of it for not having control. Both are necessary for a gambler to maintain profit in the long term. Fate comes from itself, so we should practice for having a proper control over our gambling habit.
Since when is fate assisting you in winning? There's no such thing as fate, if you believe that your actions are driven by some other force, you're definitely going the wrong way, in terms of gambling. Most games, are a simple game of odds/probabilities. What's the probability of winning a Dice game with 75% win chance? It means that by playing 4 games, you are LIKELY to win 3 of them.