There is also a downside to sending to minerjones because now the coin is being shipped twice, meaning that doubles the risk of the item potentially being lost in transit.  So I’m really just looking out for you in the end.  Sorry you don’t see it that way.

Also, if I felt like it was suspicious I would wait to see if the first person got their coin.  And if they did, then if there were auctions later down the road, I would bid on them.