Does anyone have a similar story that would share some advice? It has only been a few weeks since I've changed so I understand it's early and I am hopeful that we may be able to get back to a point similar to before our child.
nope because we have learned what will be the Life style of being married before deciding to have a child.
Not like you both that it looks like you just enter the marriage living without formal knowledge of the family making.
If you did not manage this now then expect losing your family soon.