I can't say yes or no for that now. Yes, life changes a lot after the birth of a child. Especially if it was unplanned. But it is foolish to demand from young parents (from both) that they know everything and be able to. This is the first child. The couple is learning to combine this with their normal life. This is normal. My cousin married a girl from a dating site. They had three dates and got pregnant. no, they are not teenagers. It just happens sometimes. They decided they wanted to stay together and just tackled the problems as they came. I look at them and think that they were wiser than me in some way. All people are different. I wish you patience and more) Children are a too restless joy in the house)