Yes, roads seem to be a very good example of a public good, and if roads are a public good, then the public has a right to have input into their direction, extent, quality and quantity... amongst other things related to such, in the event that they are considered to be public.
I don't think anyone here will try to argue any differently. I agree too, people should have a say in these things. What I (and many others here) am saying is that
there are other ways of doing this besides centralized governments. And some of them may even be better, too.
Yes, octaft leaves a much better impression, because he doesn't drop these:
Frequently, people who live in fantasy lands attempt to create new facts or get caught up in technicalities...
so often. This is not the first time you are saying about people that they live in "pie in sky" fantasy land. I do not know whether I live in fantasy land, nor whether you do. But have YOU considered that you might live in fantasy land, too? I am not implying you are, but that it is important to keep the possibility in mind.