The problem is that we have no choice when they require us to pass verification.
Your choice is simply to look elsewhere. Exchange wants you to complete KYC? Trade decentralized instead. Payment process wants you to complete KYC? Shop somewhere else. ICO or whatever wants you to complete KYC? Ignore it. Most ICOs are scams anyway.
According to people like you, we shoudn't use cryptography because this technology can be used by criminals to hide themselves...
On the contrary. We should cryptography and VPNs and Tor and bitcoin and mixers and anything else which protects your privacy extensively, because the government have no right to undertake mass surveillance of the population. Not making their life easier by not completing KYC anywhere goes hand in hand with that ethos.
Show me the proof that the governement (which one btw ?) want to do something wrong to someone innocent ? prove me it.
Really? You mean like the thousands of innocent people the police have killed in the US? Or the thousands of innocent civilians we have drone striked? Or maybe when our government performed human experimentation and torture on innocent people? Hell, we've even arrested people for giving food to homeless people. And we are supposedly one of the most "developed" and "civilized" countries in the world. Ha.