If you happen to be an active trader or know people that trade actively, you will notice that traders do not easily give out money ( i.e lend out money) not because they don't have to give but because their capital is actively and most times always involved a trade.
You have to understand as a friend to traders that even in times when big wins are celebrated, it is not still a time to ask them to help you with money for your needs with the thought that they are in profit, because if you do you will get yourself disappointed nine times in ten chances.
Work for your own money, nobody owes you anything.
Yes you’re right about , and it’s not just only traders. I am a trader too and I am always careful with what I do money because I know very well that making money these days is a really difficult thing, so I can’t be wasting my money anyhow. But another thing is that it also depends on who is asking for the money and also why they are asking for that money.
Also the way I live my life, I don’t live my life in a way that everyone is going to know that I have the money, I live a very secret life and not the type that’s going to make everyone feel like I have money to give. When I have enough, I give to people without minding if they are going to pay back or not. It’s best to give what you can afford to lose, because some people are going to find it hard to pay back.