they are aware that their partners Classybeef
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their other partners on Twitch TrainswreckTV
Where does Stake say these are "their partners"? Or do the "partners" claim that? I hope you realize there is a difference.
Responsible gambling control: I do not know how other crypto casinos work but compared to any other online casino they have 0 responsible gambling control in place. I have played on stake.com for a period of weeks playing over 12hours/day , wagering over 160.000$ and depositing over 50.000$ with a total incurred loss of between 4000$-4500$ on the cryptocurrency prices in April. I am in no measure to gamble this amount of money and it was of course never flagged to ask for KYC, to ask if i can afford to play this amount of money or if I'm comfortable with gambling those huge amounts. Due to my mental state i never even realised what happened until it was all over and i have lost it all.
They actually asked you to accept their TOS and you not only deliberately broke it, but also deceived the site by using a VPN. If they asked you if you can afford to gamble you would have lied too.
I'm trying to feel sorry for you here but you need to fix this on your side. Start by not having access to $50k and get professional help.