I wouldn't be trusting of that coin no matter how hyped it is because if they aren't listed, they can just vanish out of thin air if they want to do so no matter how reputable they are, remember those companies who run away with all the investors money when the market is in a stable volatility? That can happen to their coin too.
I do not think that it is really that confusing, most projects get listed on dex all the time, it starts out with one and grows to multiple eventually but that doesn't mean that we have to have it right now. We could have more in the future as well.
I personally prefer to have one just now so that we could end up with something more serious later on, I am sure if we can establish ourselves here, eventually it could be in places like apeswap and pancakeswap as well. At the end of the day it is a long process and we should not be caring about anything but whats going on right now, if we keep on just waiting and expecting then we will keep on waiting and expecting for a long time while others get rich on it. This is why we should be able to end up with a profit now and check out what is going on now, that is the type of thing we should be looking for and not the future alone.