This is very unlucky case for you, I am sure you were aware of the KYC procedure if you gonna push the gambling limits over $100k. Stunna and other Stake casino representatives will surely answer your questions, they are not going to ruin the Stake reputation unless you actually broke the ToS. Btw, did you try to contact Eddie by email? (
Eddie@stake.com)
For Sure stake is a reputed casino and they would not scam for $181K. I am sure upon investigation either the OP will be at the fault or this case will be closed after resolving and releasing the money to the OP. However i still believe the OP will be at fault.