It looks like I got it going
I have dell oem cards 3060 ti


TEMP
FAN
CORE
MEM
PL
all
*
00:02.0
HD Graphics 510  · Intel
GPU 0
01:00.0
GeForce RTX 3060 Ti 7982 MB · Dell
Samsung GDDR6 · 94.04.38.80.9F · PL 100 W, 200 W, 200 W
61.93 MH
64°
80%
129 W
80
1400
2500
135

GPU 1
02:00.0
GeForce RTX 3060 Ti 7982 MB · Dell
Samsung GDDR6 · 94.04.38.80.9F · PL 100 W, 200 W, 200 W
61.90 MH
59°
80%
127 W
80
1400
2500
135

GPU 2
03:00.0
GeForce RTX 3060 Ti 7982 MB · Dell
Samsung GDDR6 · 94.04.38.80.9F · PL 100 W, 200 W, 200 W
61.50 MH
60°
80%
120 W
80
1400
2500
135

GPU 3
04:00.0
GeForce RTX 3060 Ti 7982 MB · Dell
Samsung GDDR6 · 94.04.38.80.9F · PL 100 W, 200 W, 200 W
61.98 MH
51°
91%
128 W
91
1400
2500
135

GPU 4
05:00.0
GeForce RTX 3060 Ti 7982 MB · Dell
Samsung GDDR6 · 94.04.38.80.9F · PL 100 W, 200 W, 200 W
1
61.45 MH
47°
79%
118 W
80
1400
2500
135

GPU 5
07:00.0
GeForce RTX 3060 Ti 7982 MB · Dell
Samsung GDDR6 · 94.04.38.80.9F · PL 100 W, 200 W, 200 W
61.39 MH
68°
90%
130 W
90
1400
2500
135

GPU 6
08:00.0
GeForce RTX 3060 Ti 7982 MB · Dell
Samsung GDDR6 · 94.04.38.80.9F · PL 100 W, 200 W, 200 W
61.84 MH
62°
80%
122 W
80
1400
2500
135

GPU 7
09:00.0
GeForce RTX 3060 Ti 7982 MB · Dell
Samsung GDDR6 · 94.04.38.80.9F · PL 100 W, 200 W, 200 W
61.88 MH
60°
80%
130 W
80
1400
2500
135

GPU 8
0a:00.0
GeForce RTX 3060 Ti 7982 MB · Dell
Samsung GDDR6 · 94.04.38.80.9F · PL 100 W, 200 W, 200 W
61.89 MH
55°
80%
124 W
80
1400
2500
135

GPU 9
0b:00.0
GeForce RTX 3060 Ti 7982 MB · Dell
Samsung GDDR6 · 94.04.38.80.9F · PL 100 W, 200 W, 200 W
61.44 MH
59°
80%
123 W
80
1400
2500
135

GPU 10
0c:00.0
GeForce RTX 3060 Ti 7982 MB · Dell
Samsung GDDR6 · 94.04.38.80.9F · PL 100 W, 200 W, 200 W
61.34 MH
52°
80%
122 W
80
1400
2500
135

GPU 11
0d:00.0
GeForce RTX 3060 Ti 7982 MB · Dell
Samsung GDDR6 · 94.04.38.80.9F · PL 100 W, 200 W, 200 W
1
61.45 MH
65°
80%
126 W
80
1400
2500
135

I have 1200 watt HP server psu for 8 cards and 4 cards with rosewill 1000watt,   I get like 0-1% stale shares which is good I think and barley invlaid..  every few hours or so for the last 24 hours..  I think it is good now.... Had to mess with settings in OC a bit, it didn't like the popular ones from other people but like I said, seems good now.   Thanks for the ideas and help.