it's one hard part for me as a parent because i also wanted my kid to learn everything. its hard to teach kids all at once because as a parent you can't monitor each of the things they search while everything we do during lockdowns is online even the school extra activity is done online. although i wanted to limit what she sees on youtube or anything she searches, the ads appearing are very attractive to resist a click. it's hard to explain when the kid didn't experience gambling yet.
Actually it is not too difficult if we are smart to limit the use of smart phones or the like and stay under surveillance because in our family we are not alone, there are wives or other family members if there are.
Accompany them when learning online and if your child wants to watch you tube, and you have prepared shows that your child likes by downloading as many as possible. so that your child watches you tube offline whose data you have turned off and you also have to limit the time.
and in addition to limiting its use, you must also be able to divert it to positive things because children's activities have certain hours such as naps, playing and also watching television with appropriate shows.
Of course you can and that includes discipline and you have to be firm, because otherwise the internet today sometimes has lots of advertisements and sites that are not worth accessing and my wife and I apply it to my two children who are 12 and 9 years old
I partly diagree with your opinion, because many families dont have this opportunity. Many people have to educate their children completely alone without any help of others. In these circumstances control is not possible.