Ok. Can you confirm that the card will draw power from the power supply before the motherboard?
Or do we assume that every card draws 75 watts from the mobo 1st?
There is ~375 Ohms between pins A2, A3, B1, B2 & B3 and the 6 pin molex's on the back of the card. Meaning different parts of the card are getting energized in different ways, and the 375 Ohms between A2 & A3, B1, B2 & B3 and the 6 pin molex's is there to prevent part of the card from routing ( drawing ) power through the entire card and damaging other components.
So to answer your question, both get power first while they don't at the same time and the number 42.
I have not personally had any problems, I can confirm that I've read about wires smoking and board sockets melting. I strongly believe that the vast majority of problems related to electrical failures and wire overloads has a lot more to do with poor connections and damaged wires ( internally ). If your card is getting power from a plug that is not making sufficient contact with the psu resistance will increase making that wire hotter thus becoming a worse conductor and the worse the conductor the higher the resistance; a cascading failure.
75W @ 12V = 6.25A
So are you asking why people use the raisers with the additional molex?