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Re: How do you manage anger ? the anger managment topic !
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Chato1977
on 18/08/2021, 02:36:16 UTC
Hi,

What are your best advices, practices... for extreme situation, let's say you find your wife sleeping with your neighbors...(edit : not the first burst of anger when you see them, but for the coming days, or weeks) this kind of (long lasting pervasive) anger. Not the light one, my pc crashed again Wink

and how to protect one health from the ravages of this kind of continuous anger?

Thanks in advance.

(I had to edit it to be more focused, so not the first burst of anger but the longer lasting one)

but it's a good question to work too, the short term burst... interesting.

so maybe you could divide your answer :

a) short term burst of anger

b) longer duration anger

I am right now experiencing stage b) (it goes better now but earlier I was super angry)

thanks a lot...

(I hope the question is clear).
I may sound Hypocrite or playing safe here (Because lucky that i never had this same experience ) but i think anger is normal finding this kind of cheating and disrespectful .

but on the other side we can ask our self first

" What should be the reason She did this"?

" Am I not enough for Her"?

" have i missed something to make her Happy"?

sometimes it is the demand that make this happen in which we are not aware of our less effort to treat our wife, remember that they are Female and has always a desire to be treated as special , in every single ways.

or there are such woman that has this attitude in which never become contented in one Guy, as i know a friend with this mental sickness , he desires other buy aside from Her partner .