Any advice?
Please don't say it's all about confidence and all that bs because I don't believe it.
why don't you believe
Did you have a problem with trust? maybe you won't like my answer, but unfortunately, trust is at the center of everything. I'm not going to make a classic comment by exemplifying this for two human relationships.
For example, let's say you own a dog. If you can't trust the animal, it will never be loyal to you.