Forgiveness is a powerful tool. If you allow anger and other negative feelings to crowd out positive feelings, you might find yourself swallowed up by your own bitterness or sense of injustice. But if you can forgive her, you might both learn from the situation and strengthen your relationship.
Forgiveness can help us to feel better. But when we anger, that will not be easy as our emotions become higher and many of us hard to control the emotion. Maybe we need to calm down and think more to see what is behind that thing that we got so we can analyze what is wrong and right. After that, if other people do something wrong to us, we can forgive them and try to forget because we do not want that thing to be beside us for some time.
Everyone must have been angry, but we must be able to control our anger, because it can have a bad effect on our mentality. One of the teachings of
my religion is forgiveness can make us a good person. People who dare to apologize first are brave in my opinion, because giving forgiveness to
others is very difficult to do that. Forgiving each other has been proven to reduce the emotions of both parties who are in dispute, many things
can make us angry. Therefore it is necessary to practice our patience and also make forgiveness as a habit. If we can do this, we will get used to
controlling our anger.
I think all religions teach us to forgive others who made mistakes and we should apologize for the first time. It is hard to ask for forgiveness from others, even if we think we do not make mistakes. If both sides can forgive each other, there is no need to fight or argue because we realize that we are just human who always make a mistake and others will do the same. Asking for forgiveness can reduce the high tension that happens to both people and needs the courage to forgive each other. If we can have the courage to do that, I think we can control the anger and calm down and be patient.