Which date were they wired to Gox on, originally?
It was initiated on the 18th of Feb.
Have you done something to get your money back?
To which bank did you send the money to? Did you call the bank?
From which country did you send the money from? which currency?
I am in a similar situation. but I didn't see any money yet.
I did an international transfer on the 17thFeb and asked to cancel it on the 19th and it was too late already. My bank contacted Gox's bank in Poland and they could only give the money back if they received authorization from Gox. Needless to say they never received the confirmation - even worse, they couldn't get in touch with Gox.
I called the bank in Poland as well and obviously they couldn't give me any information.
If you have more information, that would be helpful so other can maybe do the same thing.