something moved along, suddenly the withdrawal shows as "processed" - I can not say it's a scam anymore, the funds arrived, late but they arrived, I'll let this here for others to see there was a disruption with my experience, my brother was ecstatic but I still need to find a way how to tell him that I destroyed my trezor in anger about this whole thing. then I got drunk with friends and my best friend had the genius idea to let go and burn the seed of my trading wallet, so one day I would not have to worry about taxes and whatnot. this was a stupid idea, he's stupid, and we were drunk... we ceremoniously burnt the seed to my wallet. I can see the funds in my account but I can't spend them anymore...

moral of the story: long time bitcoiner messes up by trusting small chinese trading company which clearly seemed to have ran away with a substantial amount of money, then it magically returns into a wallet I can't access anymore.

meh. don't be like me, just hodl, don't traed.