It's actually about giving up the things so easily.Like in life we face loss from something whether we give it up or try to achieve it? I know gambling is totally different but what i was saying is that players who leave the game with disappointment that they could never win just feel it's part of gambling and you could win if you are consistent and betting in limits.
It is simply just misunderstanding that you guys had. What should be said is the fact that if you are ever going to gamble, know that the biggest possibility is you will lose your money. What can you do about this? Just focus on depositing a limited amount and do not deposit again for that period, I do that for years now, deposit 50 bucks per month and do not change that number, if I lose it on day one then I do not gamble at all for the whole month, if I end up winning then withdraw 50 bucks and use that for next month and lose the earnings.
This way you would have entertainment, lose a lot less money, be in control and you can still have fun while gambling without worrying about what will happen. Obviously it is not great to know that you will lose all of your money as the biggest chance, but at least you would be ready for it when that happens.