Skip a year or two, it might put some perspective into it? Maybe? I've friends who I have not seen in 10 years, meet them, then don't see them in another 5, but we're still friends. We just don't do much and have our own lives now.
To your point, they are young enough that I'm hoping another 10 years may turn them around, and I can write them back in, if I'm still alive.
They have to convince me they are worthy of inheriting something, and not become complete garbage humans like their father, for how he treated my sister, and using the children as weapons against her.
That shit has dire consequences to me; that nephews will side with their degenerate father over my sister, but that's more info than I should have revealed...