So for example, when i look at a coin like BNB... which is a very popular coin on binance and binance.US, how in the world would i sell this coin if i can't use those exchanges?
I got to assume lot of people have been in this situation?
Of course if you know this situation will happen, best to sell the coin while you can so you don't have the issue.
So what are one's options? Imagine you had BNB or another altcoin and the exchanges that you allow you to trade it... you cannot have an account there. Are you screwed? I assume you could always find someone online who would help you sell it so to speak for a fee? Like imagine you give them BNB and they pay you via btc or stablecoin and you pay them extra to help you sell the coin since you cannot have an account at the exchanges which sell it?
Are there services like this? What would be the fee for something like this?
Obviously there is the use VPN thing but if an exchange requires KYC, then obviously you cannot do this.
There are a few solutions for a problem like the one you are having, if the amount of coins you are holding is large and the only restriction you are facing is the state you are living then it is worth to consider relocating to a state in which you are allowed to trade this particular coin, the second option is to find a person which accepts peer-to-peer trading, this is not that difficult especially if the coin is a popular one as there are people here in the forum which offer this service and you can get rid of your coins that way.