Sometimes we feel not good after paying a High Fee on ETH

But I want's to know why this?
I feel my emotions with this

High gas fee is caused by crowded transcations that took place on eth network, like the supply and demand idea. However, gas fee on eth will be much higher than the regular fee if you choose to prioritize your own transactions over the other other transactions on the network.
But if you'd like to pay low on gas fee then you should expect that your transactions to be slow, or wait if the gas fee dips.
even setting a lower Gas fee can make the transaction fail. even that will only make your ETH Gas disappear for free for failed transactions.
for convenience, always set the highest Gas for fast transactions. if you don't want to wait for a transaction that may be delayed even fail.