However, I don't think it's the right thing to do to make solo miners mine by default to an address owned by you,
No you're reading it wrong.
You should add a cgminer donate command like cgwatcher has if you want a cut of my miniscule pie.
Um, are these guys really upset because the executive summary has your bitcoin address for an example? Or am I missing something?
Restart bitcoind, then start cgminer, pointing to the bitcoind and choose a
btc address with the following options, altering to suit their setup:
cgminer -o http://localhost:8332 -u username -p password --btc-address 15qSxP1SQcUX3o4nhkfdbgyoWEFMomJ4rZ
If you do NOT specify a btc address, you WILL be mining solo for me instead.