Trading is not for everybody but some traders do force themselves to get more from trading which can often turn out to go the contrary of the major aim of trading. Trading is dangerous, we don't need to force it.
Note: everybody can not gain from the market; there must be the losers and the gainers. If you are losing, is either you learn more trading skills or leave the market. If you forceit, you'll end up in the slum.
This is what it meant about trading. Forcing ourselves to a thing that we know is not for us will surely just end up losing. Why? That is because some of your friends did it right or just because we see it in ads. In that case, we just make ourselves a loser and I don't see any reason why we should have to do it.
The differences we have in real life, that it tells us also that we are having a different journey in our life. And that is why we don't need to be jealous why some of your friends, relatives become successful in trading while you're not. No, we don't but rather to find a place where we are suitable and become productive rather than to force ourselves to nothing.