In your situation, I think KYC is inevitable since you mentioned that you risked a million overall in your account and I might be wrong here but stake has the right to ask KYC if they want to.
Then again, stake probably overlooked your account for quite a while as they could be lenient on certain rules and I also think that confrontation between your host and Eddie triggered the KYC.
Very likely I think.
I think that this should serve as a warning for everyone who wants to use Stake but don't necessarily want to undergo the KYC procedure. If you are risking a lot of money, they have the right and responsibility to do this on you.
But I also think that OP should probably summarise his post a bit if he genuinely wants a reaction from Stunna and other decision makers.