I think you should fix the first post, OP. It's quite confusing for everyone who would read it because you wrote

Bodered? There's no word like that. Bothered or Bordered is what I could think of and upon checking the site that you sent, it's definitely bother.

If you are trying to badmouth their project in their personal Discord, what do you expect? Welcome you with open arms? There maybe better ways to interact with someone who is tarnishing someone's name or something but that's really what happens.