During the scaling debate, months before the UASF cleared the path to a true understanding of Bitcoin, community, and consensus, as a newbie, what was your viewpoint on “big blocks or small blocks”? I was also a newbie with a different perspective. 
100 sat/byte, that is still too high accept when the mempool is congested, it can even go higher. I will used vbyte because weight for transactions except when using legacy addresses to make transactions. Nested segwit, native segwit and the upcoming taproot are using weight for transactions. Right now, the mempool is not that congested, even 11 sat/vbyte will get your transaction confirmed early. This has been how bitcoin transactions has been but it depends on how congested mempool is. You can first use mempool observers to check the vbyte to get transaction confirmed early.https://jochen-hoenicke.de/queue/#BTC,2h,weight
https://mempool.space/