As to the claims that we are shaving leads, thats just ridiculous. Our product relies on successful affiliates, such as yourself, to drive our product. It wouldn't be productive or effective to tarnish our relationship over, we want to work with you, not against.
We are not accusing you of shaving leads intentionally.
Something with your tracking was messed up and probably is still messed up.
Thanks for bringing the idea of using your mirror sites, that's probably going to be much better but users need to trust it and don't feel they're using a clone/fake site.
As for what you messed up you seem to not take any responsibility, so if a user ended up without any referrer then he's yours and not ours, and we should suck it up.
That's absolutely unfair.