Has money been used as personal funds?
I see that cabalism13 is Finally Married so we can just speculate the reasons for splitting ''donations'' and how he spent his part of that money.
That could also explain why he was less active in forum recently and wrote only four posts since August 2021.
On the flip side, they did post some proof and images of donating food, helping homeless, helping animal rehabilitation, and last one was back in May 2021:
https://bitcointalk.org/index.php?topic=5124375.300